HENRY SAID:
“As I pointed out in another post, it is Steve Hays who tried to turn it into a contest of determining which view was more loving.”
To the contrary, one of Henry’ standard objections to Calvinism is that Calvinism is allegedly less loving than Arminianism.
This is, of course, a stock Arminian objection to Calvinism. So it’s not the only time I’ve dealt with it. But Henry is recycling this objection, so I’ll respond accordingly.
“Concerning what is most loving as I said before I do not know what is most loving in many cases and that is not the issue here.”
Not surprisingly, Henry would prefer to evade this issue. Disputants only want to debate the perceived strong points of their own system as well as perceived weak points of the opposing system. If allowed to, they will arbitrarily limit the scope of the discussion.
So, Henry wants to discuss what is more loving, but not what is most loving. Yet this is illogical.
If what is more loving is better than what is less loving, then what is most loving is better than what is more loving.
The fact that Henry can’t defend Arminian theology as the most loving option undercuts his appeal to Arminian theology as the more loving option. For if Arminianism is better than Calvinism because Arminianism is the more loving, then universalism is better than Arminianism because universalism is the most loving.
Henry would like to artificially confine this discussion to a debate between Arminianism and Calvinism rather than Arminianism and universalism, in part because it’s easier to fight on one front rather than two, and especially because universalism trumps Arminianism on its own grounds.
“If that is the way you are going to frame it: that our sinful actions (which would include the unbeliever rejecting the gospel message and the believer sinning) will LIMIT THE IMPACT OF GOD’S LOVE. Then this will be a ‘problem’ for both the noncalvinist and the Calvinist.”
It’s not problem for Calvinism, since God foreordained the fall. Both the sinful believer and the sinful unbeliever are doing precisely what God predestined them to do. And God’s love for the elect has exactly the effect that God intended for the elect.
“God’s nature is love and while we sense it less when we sin, His love nevertheless is always directed at us and coming at us.”
Several problems:
i) Love is not God’s only attribute.
ii) Divine attributes need to be defined in Scriptural terms.
iii) In Arminian theology, God’s love is “coming at us” and bouncing off us. It’s directed at us by God, and redirected away from us by our libertarian resistance.
“Again, if our sinful actions in some way lessen the **impact** of God’s love, then that occurs whether you are a noncalvinist or a Calvinist.”
It doesn’t lessen the impact of God’s redemptive love of the elect. God loves the elect, and his love for the elect results in their salvation.
“I am not convinced that we should talk about our actions as in some way limiting the exercise of a divine attribute.”
Meaning that when you back Henry into a corner with his own premise, he beings to complain.
“When we sin are we also limiting the exercise of divine sovereignty which is a divine attribute?”
If you’re an Arminian, yes; if you’re a Calvinist, no.
“And if not, then how is that we are able to limit the exercise of the attribute of divine love but not the attribute of divine sovereignty?”
Because an Arminian will give a different answer than a Calvinist. Sin doesn’t limit the exercise of divine sovereignty for a Calvinist since sin is, itself, an expression of divine sovereignty. The fall of Adam (and Lucifer), as well as every attendant consequence thereof, was decreed by God as a means to a greater good.
“In the context of a relationship, acts of love by one of the parties can make a lot of difference regardless of how the other party sometimes reacts or responds to these acts of love…And yet with persistent acts of love positive changes in the relationship were effected. The power of loving acts should never be underestimated, especially when those loving acts are flowing from a loving God.”
Observe that an Arminian can only speak of God’s grace in the optative or subjunctive rather than the indicative—unlike Calvinism.
Follow the weasel words: love “can” make a “lot” of difference. Love should not be “underestimated.”
Notice what he doesn’t say: the love of God makes all the difference.
Arminian grace is optative grace or subjunctive grace. Reformed grace is indicative grace.
“Looking at our own coming to the Lord, some will be able to tell a story of how God started reaching out to them in love and at first they ignored or rejected these overtures by the Lord. But with time their resistance broke down and they realized how much the Lord loved them.”
In Reformed theology, regeneration is irresistible. Regeneration is immediate grace.
But in Reformed theology, the means of grace, such as the preaching of the word, is resistible.
There is nothing in the “story” of conversion at odds with Reformed theology. And conversion is broader than regeneration.
“It is ironic that Hays once again completely misrepresents things here. Jesus himself even spoke in parables about how God sends out the invitations to the world. And in these parables it does not speak of the people being unable to even respond to the invitation because they were **corpses**. Instead it says they understood the invitation but rejected it and made excuses. The same thing sometimes happens when we evangelize. It is not that the person does not understand what we are saying (especially when the Spirit is working on them or has been working on them). Rather, they get the message, but then start making excuses as to why they are rejecting it. Corpses last time I checked cannot dialogue with you, nor can they give you reasons why they are rejecting Jesus.”
A seminary professor like Henry ought to have the minimal sophistication to realize that the Bible uses different metaphors to illustrate different truths. Henry is like the liberal who reduces the gospel to the Sermon on the Mount or the parable of the prodigal son.
Some metaphors speak of the unregenerate as dead in sin. They are dead in the sense that they require spiritual revival from an external agent to bring them back to life. A corpse is not self-resuscitating.
Other metaphors speak of the unregenerate as enslaved to sin. They are very much alive, but unable to free themselves from the shackles of sin.
“Steve Hays, like Gene Bridges, wants to have me saying or arguing that God always does the most loving thing for everyone always. I have never said this nor do I believe it yet they keep trying to put words in my mouth. Here is yet another attempt to force the creation of a straw man (not what I do say or believe but what they want me to say or believe so they can attack it).”
What Gene and I are doing is to take his position to its logical extreme. This is a traditional and perfectly respectable form of argumentation.
Because Henry lacks the intellectual honesty to accuratetly represent the implications of his own position, someone else will have to do it for him.
“Steve Hays brought up the issue of which is more loving Calvinism or noncalvinism. The concept of what is **most loving** was not the issue. I addressed the issue of what is more loving, arguing that noncalvinism is more loving than Calvinism. If the argument is which is **more loving** (Calvinism or noncalvinism) then I am under no burden or necessity to argue for what is **most loving**.”
Is Henry dense? “More loving” is a wedge issue. One may introduce the comparative to then leverage the superlative.
“Monergists because they believe in exhaustive determinism and deny the existence of free will, explain the coming of a person to faith in Jesus Christ as being TOTALLY AND UNILATERALLY A WORK OF GOD.”
Of course, Calvinism doesn’t deny freewill. It only denies libertarian freedom.
“Scripture seems to suggest that we are **saved** when we respond in faith and are regenerated.”
Two problems:
i) John Murray, Herman Ridderbos, and Tom Schreiner (among others) have argued for the priority of regeneration to faith. Henry ignores their argumentation.
ii) As Gene already pointed out, Henry has a sloppy habit of oscillating between colloquial and dogmatic usage.
“So in the monergistic scheme the person is saved first without any actions on his part, and then regeneration causes faith to occur.”
No, in a monergistic scheme the person is first regenerated, then regeneration results in faith.
“Consider the metaphor often invoked by Calvinists themselves. The monergist believes that God chooses to have a relationship with what is initially a corpse. The corpse being dead can in no way relate to God whatsoever. So the corpse must first be made alive, then a relationship can occur.”
True.
“(Calvinists often use the story of Lazarus being raised to support this notion).”
No, that’s being used as an illustration, not a prooftext.
“Steve Hays also admits that part of salvation is synergistic: ‘Sanctification has a cooperative aspect, although it’s not in the libertarian sense’.”
Henry suffers from reading incomprehension. I specifically denied synergism. “Cooperation” is not a synonym for “synergism.”
Henry, in his linguistic naiveté, doesn’t appreciate the difference between the etymology and meaning.
He seems to think that because words like “synergism” (or “cooperation”) are compound words, they simply mean what the root plus the prefix apparently means.
But words often have more than one meaning. And some words are technical terms with a specialized meaning.
“In Calvinism the “relationship” between God and his people is not a relationship involving freely performed actions by both parties.”
Notice that Henry is imposing his tendentious definition onto words like “freely.” There’s no argument, here. Just his question-begging assertions.
“In a freely chosen and loving relationship both parties make uncoerced nonconstrained choices which make the relationship a good and healthy one.”
Another one of Henry’s problems is that he doesn’t even know the meaning of English words. “Coercion” implies a point of resistance or psychological tension between the subject of the action and the object of the action.
A textbook example is acting at gunpoint. If you have a gun to your head, this forces you to do something that you would otherwise refrain from doing.
But there is no coercion in regeneration. Regeneration operates at a subliminal level. The object of regeneration is unconscious of the cause. He is only conscious of its effect.
Likewise, there’s nothing coercive about predestination. The object of predestination is unaware of what God has decreed him to do (in advance of the fact). So there’s no point of tension between what he does and what he was decreed to do. He cannot resist what he cannot know to resist.
“If everything is predetermined and free will and choices do not make up the relationship. Then the relationship between God and man (assuming that God predetermines everything, that free will does not exist, that we can never do otherwise than in fact we were predetermined to do in any and every set of affairs) is then like a puppet master and his puppet or a computer programmer and his computer.”
It’s obvious that Henry has never seen Bride of Chucky, or Colossus: The Forbin Project. Clearly there are some serious lacunae in the seminary curriculum wherever he happens to teach.
“If every action of a puppet is controlled by the puppet master, every aspect of the puppet’s being is controlled by the puppet master (which would include their consciousness, mental states, desires, beliefs, memories, thinking, deliberating, etc. Etc. Etc.”
But, of course, this is precisely where the analogy breaks down. At the critical point of comparison, since puppets, unlike humans, lack these mental properties. (Unless we make an exception for Chucky—in which case the analogy breaks down at another point)
“While these actions by the puppet would **not** properly be described as coerced, these actions are all constrained by the puppet master. The relationship is not one involving persons freely choosing their actions towards each other.”
Waiving his flawed analogy, it’s quite true that there’s a fundamental asymmetry between the creature and the Creator. This is not a relationship between peers. We don’t make God react in a certain way by how we act. God is not like a distraught lover who is waiting for the phone to ring: “Will she call back? Oh, dear, what should I do next?”
“Or it would be like a computer programmer who was able to preprogram a conscious and intelligent computer robot to do whatever the programmer had preprogrammed it to do. Again, the robot’s actions would not be coerced but they would be completely controlled and constrained by the programmer.”
Lt. Commander Data would deeply resent Henry’s speciesistic hate-speech.
Robots are people, too! Clearly they need to add I, Robot to the curriculum at Henry’s backwoods seminary.
Thankfully, Calvinism has never been susceptible to this cybernetic bigotry. Centuries before Asimov, Calvin wrote the textbook on robopsychology.
If Henry continues to defame his fellow, cybernetic citizens, he will be Terminated!
“In either case whether it is the conscious puppet or conscious robot completely controlled and predetermined, I would not consider these to be real relationships of freely chosen love and trust as is true in the saving relationship between God and human persons.”
Now he’s slandering the all-American gynoid next door. If the Stepford Wives bring a class action suit against his Arminian chauvinist piggery, he’ll only has himself to blame.
“Hays says that left to our own resources fallen sinners will reject God. But that is just the point, God does not leave us to ourselves.”
Ah, yes. He throws us a rope and then takes a lunch break.
“I define synergism as requiring the actions of both persons, monergism as requiring the actions of only one person.”
This is a simplistic, nonstandard definition.
“God nevertheless took the initiative in developing the relationship with us by sending Jesus to die for our sins before we ever had any relationship with Him.”
It’s so much better if God took the initiative in his empty gestures.
“Yes, we should do whatever we can to save people from life threatening circumstances involving suicide. I personally believe that if someone is seriously considering suicide that they are not in a rational state, are not in a right state of mind, but are ‘out of their minds’, so I would have no hesitation in intervening ‘against their will’ or without informed consent…In a situation where a person is in the act of suicide the context is different and informed consent may be suspended.”
Which is, of course, exactly how the Bible describes the mental state of the unregenerate (cf. Titus 3:3-5).
“God developing a saving relationship with us and intervening to prevent a person’s suicide are two very different contexts.”
It’s different in the sense that we’re arguing, at one level, from the lesser to the greater. If it’s right to unilaterally intervene in order to save someone from death, then why is it wrong to unilaterally intervene in order to save someone from damnation?
At another level, we’re arguing from the greater to the lesser. In the case of a suicidal man or woman, it may be necessary to take coercive measures.
By contrast, predestination and regeneration are not coercive. So if there are circumstances under which even coercive intervention is right, then why is unilateral intervention which falls short of coercion wrong?
“God does not coerce us or constrain or manipulate or trick or con us into a personal relationship with us.”
Once again, this is a tendentious distortion of the Reformed position.
At the same time, there are situations in which it’s right to trick or con someone. You may lie to a suicidal man to talk him down from the ledge. You do it for his own good.
“God does not speak about love so much because He is wimpy and sentimental but because He desires us to have quality relationships with Him and others.”
Actually, the Arminian God is like something out of a Harlequin romance. Our Fabio in heaven.
“Persons who are into love are into ‘informed consent’, persons who are into selfish control and power are into coercion. A coerced and forced relationship of love is an oxymoron.”
This is stock, Arminian rhetoric. I’d add that it’s also out of touch with the realities of sexual passion and infatuation, where—for better or worse—lovers are often overpowered by their feelings for each other and swept along by the heat of the moment.
How is it that Arminians know so little about human nature, especially in matters of the heart? Did Henry grow up within a Shaker community?
“In my analogy of the lifeguard since I am talking about salvation and God developing a loving relationship in such a context, informed consent is important and necessary.”
Even at a human level, this is utter nonsense. Take parents and children, or siblings. How they feel about one other is normally quite involuntary. For better or worse, they have precious little control over their feelings.
Is Henry a clone? Did he grow up inside a giant Petri dish? No human contact apart from rubber gloves? How is it that Henry, like other Arminians, is so obvious to social psychology? So clueless about the world around them?
Please accept my apologies for the derail - I wish you all had a question box. Do any of you T-bloguer's recommend/not recommend Pratt's "Every Thought Captive"?
ReplyDelete“In Calvinism the “relationship” between God and his people is not a relationship involving freely performed actions by both parties.”
ReplyDeleteA. Since God is under no obligation to the sinner, the person who becomes part of the covenant community does so because God freely acted.
B. Scripture NEVER defines freedom in contra-causal terms. "Freedom" is defined as "freedom from sin." The regenerate person is now free from the enslavement of sin by way of his justification and progressively by his sanctification. Ergo, he is "freely" acting in his relationship to God.
C. We are enslaved to either Law or Grace, Death or Life. Scripture denies Henry's version of freedom.
“In a freely chosen and loving relationship both parties make uncoerced nonconstrained choices which make the relationship a good and healthy one.”
A. The only constraint for God is the covenant within the Godhead, but that is, itself, freely enjoined between them.
B. Notice that Henry has not really stated why one person believes (acts "freely") or whatever terms he wishes to use and another, under the same circumstances does not do so. In one thread, he spoke of reasons (but that's not a libertarian argument) and in another he spoke of "circumstances." I'll ask again, within the constraints of libertarian freedom, why does Henry think Bob believes in Christ under the same circumstances as Sally who rejects?
puppet master and his puppet or a computer programmer and his computer.”
Notice that Henry objects to such characterizations about Arminianism but uses them freely when he wishes for the other side. He speaks with a forked tongue.
Puppets don't have wills. Neither do computers. I believe Manata answered this objection, but Henry just repeats this as if it hasn't been discussed. Steve answers it again.
“In either case whether it is the conscious puppet or conscious robot completely controlled and predetermined, I would not consider these to be real relationships of freely chosen love and trust as is true in the saving relationship between God and human persons.”
As I have stated before, this is an ethical and philosophical objection. When it comes down to it, Henry cannot substantiate this from Scripture. He has no exegetical objections. Where does Scripture define what is a "real" choice or "real" relationship in these terms?
“God does not coerce us or constrain or manipulate or trick or con us into a personal relationship with us.”
Reformed theology does not teach this. Henry has to resort to distortions and ad homineums to cover up his losing hand. He can't win on exegetical grounds, so he resorts to ad homineum and emotion.
Also, he talks a lot about what God did in sending Christ...but that's not the issue, Henry. We agree that God sent Christ, etc. We deny that He died for the world in the way you mean it . For us, what He did accomplishes all for which it was designed. For you, it does nothing but make men saveable or create a bridge halfway across a chasm. For us, it saves. For you, it makes saveable. These are not convertible propositions.
And if you'll notice, Henry talks a lot about the general call and Jesus' death and resurrection, but, when it comes to the reasons Bob believes and Sally does not, where is his doctrine of universal prevenient grace? UPG and the external call are not the same thing. If he has no doctrine of UPG or his doctrine confounds it with common grace, I'll gladly admit he is no Arminian...he's a real semi-Pelagian.
Steve Hays’ verbal ridicule and hateful speech towards people is completely unacceptable and sinful according to scripture. There is no evidence of him attempting to live out what the Bible says we ought to be choosing to do in regards to how we are to interact with people both believers and unbelievers. The unacceptable speech can be documented as He has made repeated hateful, sarcastic, condescending, abrasive, belittling comments towards both unbelievers and believers with whom he disagrees theologically.
ReplyDeleteI wrote to him just today (6-14-07) and asked:
“Steve when will you cease engaging in the constant abusive and sinful comments towards me?”
I added:
“You know what the Bible says about how Christians are to interact with one another: you need to do a better job of doing these things in your interactions with me. I want to engage in a civil and rational discussion so there is no need for your repeated belittling comments and personal attacks.”
And Steve Hays immediate response to my words contained no apology, no hint of remorse, no attempt to cut out the sinful manner of speaking with me. Instead he writes the following words, again reiterating his false accusation that I am a false teacher (and if we know our bible we know that accusing someone about being a false teacher exhibiting the traits discussed in the NT regarding false teachers is tantamount to saying that they are going to hell) and continuing his sinful abusive speech. Here is Steve Hays response to my appeal to being civil and rational and cutting out the unnecessary personal insults and personal attacks:
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“I also know how the Bible talks about false teachers, of which you are one. Therefore, I’m following Biblical precedent.”
“You are a dishonest opponent. You have been repeatedly corrected on your many mistakes, yet you continue to repeat the very same mistakes.
”For some reason, you seem to think that you are exempt from such elementary Christian duties as honesty and truth-telling.”
”Therefore, what you’re entitled to is stern reproof, which is exactly what you’re getting.”
“You’re projecting. I didn’t make any claims about my intellectual superiority. There’s nothing prideful about my pointing out that *others* are smarter than you are, of which MG is an evident example.”
”Remember that I’m not your only opponent. You’ve also crossed swords with Bridges and Manata—both of whom can and have argued circles around you.”
”BTW, you’re indignant reaction betrays a good deal of injured pride on your own part.” (6-14-07)
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I am now going to contrast what Steve Hays has been saying towards me, with what the Bible says about how Christians are to interact with and speak with one another. I will share two sets of statements here. First the public comments on Triablogue by Steve Hays directed towards me (and this is not an exhaustive listing of them), second Bible verses about how we ought to be acting towards one another. A friend of mine suggested providing this contrast if Steve Hays continued in his sinful abusive speech towards me.
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Set 1 = public statements by Steve Hays towards Henry:
Henry seems to have a problem thinking outside his own little box. (3/22/07)
Sigh. Someone else who can’t follow his own line of reasoning. (3/22/07)
The most charitable interpretation of Henry’s statement is that he’s very young, naïve, and inexperienced. But for those who haven’t led such a charmed life or sheltered existence, the source of bitter regret is not that we could have done otherwise, but that we couldn’t bring ourselves to do otherwise. (3/23/07)
This is a purely emotional appeal, which is the last resort of the scoundrel. You reject the witness of Scripture because you dislike the consequences. (3/23/07)
It's a pity that Henry is so forgetful. (4/1/07)
As usual, Henry can't follow his own argument (4/1/07)
Henry never fails to miss the point. (4/1/07)
No, the major reasons are as follows:
i) Many people are just as illogical as Henry. (4/1/07)
Henry is now advertising his ignorance of Biblical lexicography.(4/8/07)
Henry pays lip service to Scripture, but he’s too lazy to consult the standard commentaries, lexicons, or monographs on lexical semantics. (4/8/07)
Such is Henry’s forked-tongued rhetoric on secular philosophy. (4/8/07)
Henry also doesn’t know the difference between sense and reference.(4/8/07)
Henry is ignorant of the doctrine he’s opposing. (4/8/07)
Henry is a false teacher. The Bible has very harsh things to say about false teachers. And keep in mind that, in the NT, the false teachers were professing Christians. But that doesn’t prevent the Bible from denouncing them in no uncertain terms. (4/8/07)
I would be prepared to cut Henry some slack if he were an honest man. But he prevaricates. He raises objections. When we answer him on his own grounds, he then chooses to ignore the counterarguments, change the subject, or repeat himself ad nauseum. (4/8/07)
I said:
”Steve Hays’ claims that I am a false teacher going to hell for eternal punishment.”
Which, of course, I didn't say. Henry suffers from a persecution complex. He's looking for a pretext to back out of a losing argument. (4/10/07)
Another palpable characterization of this thread. His problem (among others) is that he is not an honest disputant or truth-seeker. (4/10/07)
An honest and honorable man would withdraw his initial objections if he's been answered on his own grounds, and can show no flaw in the counterargument. (4/10/07)
That, however, is not what Henry does. He thinks that he's entitled to unconditional respect when he conducts himself in an intellectually disreputable fashion. (4/10/07)
I hold professing Christians (as well an unbelievers) to a minimal standard of intellectual honestly. (4/10/07)
If Henry doesn't know this, then Henry doesn't know very much. But, of course, we've already established his ignorance in past exchanges. (6-1-07)
Henry keeps reminding us that he isn't the sharpest knife in the drawer. (6-1-07)
I hate to break the news to the impoverished little mind of Henry, but words frequently have more than one meaning. (6-4-07)
Perhaps, though, Henry is a closet homosexual activist who would use the same line of reasoning with reference to the sense of yada in Gen 19. (6-4-07)
Henry, could you try, just for once in your life, to be less of a dimwit? (6-4-07)
Henry is a chronic liar. If I had a brick for every inch that his nose grows, I could build a road from Alaska to Argentina. (6-4-07)
This is a splendid example of Henry’s Biblical illiteracy. (6-4-07)
Observe how Henry keeps using singular nouns with plural pronouns. His addiction to transgender usage is further evidence that he must be a closet homosexual activist. The Arminian chapter of ACT UP. (6-4-07)
ii) BTW, Henry must believe that all children who die before the age of discretion are damned. Same with all Christians who die in a state of senile dementia. Same with all adults below a certain IQ. (6-4-07)
How did he ever get to be a seminary prof, anyway? Did he marry the daughter of the seminary president? (6-7-07)
I know it makes your widdle head hoit to think logically, but with daily practice, a few baby steps at a time, you may just get the hang of it. (6-7-07)
Henry has a real problem thinking through the ramifications of his own position. He needs to work off all those layers of intellectual baby-fat. (6-7-07)
I realize that Henry finds it difficult to grasp the obvious, but maybe a little light will suddenly switch on if we keeping drawing his attention to the obvious. (6-7-07)
Or is his commitment to Arminian freewill so fanatical that he would let his own brother blow his brains out without making an effort to wrest the gun from his hands? (6-7-07)
He's like the parody of the spoiled, only child, who's used to receiving uncondition approval from his doting parents for whatever he says. (6-7-07)
No wonder he’s an Arminian. It’s the theological projection of an overgrown child. The theology of the middle-aged brat. Henry remains the center of his theological universe—ever compliant to his petulant whims. (6-7-07)
Because Henry lacks the intellectual honesty to accurately represent the implications of his own position, someone else will have to do it for him. (6-10-07)
Is Henry dense? “More loving” is a wedge issue. One may introduce the comparative to then leverage the superlative. (6-10-07)
Henry suffers from reading incomprehension. (6-10-07)
Henry, in his linguistic naiveté, doesn’t appreciate the difference between the etymology and meaning. (6-10-07)
Another one of Henry’s problems is that he doesn’t even know the meaning of English words. (6-10-07)
Robots are people, too! Clearly they need to add I, Robot to the curriculum at Henry’s backwoods seminary. (6-10-07)
How is it that Arminians know so little about human nature, especially in matters of the heart? Did Henry grow up within a Shaker community? (6-10-07)
How is it that Henry, like other Arminians, is so obvious to social psychology? So clueless about the world around them? (6-10-07)
Henry is now arguing with MG as well as me. That's an imprudent move on his part since MG has a far more agile mind that Henry. But, by all means, Henry—take on yet another, superior opponent. (6-12-07)
I also know how the Bible talks about false teachers, of which you are one. Therefore, I’m following Biblical precedent.”
You are a dishonest opponent. You have been repeatedly corrected on your many mistakes, yet you continue to repeat the very same mistakes.
For some reason, you seem to think that you are exempt from such elementary Christian duties as honesty and truth-telling.
Therefore, what you’re entitled to is stern reproof, which is exactly what you’re getting.”
You’re projecting. I didn’t make any claims about my intellectual superiority. There’s nothing prideful about my pointing out that *others* are smarter than you are, of which MG is an evident example.
Remember that I’m not your only opponent. You’ve also crossed swords with Bridges and Manata—both of whom can and have argued circles around you.
BTW, you’re indignant reaction betrays a good deal of injured pride on your own part. (6-14-07)
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Set 2 = Bible verses on how Christians are to interact with and speak to other Christians:
“and put on the new self, which in the likeness of God has been created in righteousness and holiness of the truth. Therefore, laying aside falsehood, speak truth, each one of you, with his neighbor, for we are members of one another.” Eph. 4:24-25
“Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, that it may give grace to those who hear. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with malice. And be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.” Eph. 4:29-32 (unwholesome words, bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, malice, are not acceptable; instead kind, tender-hearted, forgiving ought to be done)
“for you were formerly darkness, but now you are light in the Lord; walk as children of light (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness and righteousness and truth), trying to learn what is pleasing to the Lord.” (Eph. 5:8-10) (children of light do not talk to each other as the children of darkness do to each other)
“Do all things without grumbling or disputing; that you may prove yourselves to be blameless and innocent, children of God above reproach in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you appear as lights in the world” (Phil. 2:14-15) (blameless, innocent, light in a dark world)
“so that you may walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God” (Col. 1:10) (our actions ought to be done in a manner worthy of the Lord; we are to be good witnesses manifesting Jesus’ character to both unbelievers and especially believers = “So then, while we have opportunity, let us do good to all men, and especially to those who are of the household of faith” Gal. 6:10)
“For it is on account of these things that the wrath of God will come, and in them you also once walked, when you were living in them. But now you also, put them all aside: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and abusive speech from your mouth.” (Col. 3:6-8) (Christians may have experienced anger, wrath, malice, slander, abusive speech, in the past as nonbelievers, but it should no longer characterize them, or be practiced by believers, as saved persons these things are to be put aside and replaced by love, kindness, gentleness, self control, etc. etc.)
“And so, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience; bearing with one another and forgiving each other, whoever has a complaint against anyone; just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you. And beyond all these things put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity.” (Col. 3:12-14) (we are to be compassionate, kind, humble, gentle, patience, bearing with one another, forgiving)
“Now as to the love of the brethren, you have no need for anyone to write to you, for you yourselves are taught by God to love one another; for indeed you do practice it toward all the brethren who are in all Macedonia. But we urge you, brethren, to excel still more” (1 Thess. 4:9-10)(love other Christians and **excel** in it)
“And the Lord’s bond-servant must not be quarrelsome, but be kind to all, able to teach, patient when wronged, with gentleness correcting those who are in opposition, if perhaps God may grant them repentance leading to the knowledge of the truth, and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, having been held captive by him to do his will.” (2 Tim: 2:24-26 – Note while this is spoken about how we are to act towards nonbelievers, if these things are true of that interaction how should our interaction be with other believers??? Even when the unbeliever wrongs us we are to be patient when wronged, correcting them with gentleness realizing that God is the one who has to change their heart)
“To sum up, let all be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted and humble in spirit; not returning evil for evil, or insult for insult, but giving a blessing instead; for you were called for the very purpose that you might inherit a blessing.” (1 Pet. 3:8-12)(are to be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, humble, not returning evil for evil or insults when insulted)
“Above all, keep fervent in your love for one another, because love covers a multitude of sins. Be hospitable to one another without complaint.” (1 Pet. 4:8-9) (above all love ought to characterize the interactions between Christians)
“You younger men, likewise, be subject to your elders; and all of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, for God IS OPPOSED TO THE PROUD, BUT GIVES GRACE TO THE HUMBLE. Humble yourselves, therefore, under the might hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time” (1 Pet. 5:5-6) (God hates pride and opposes the proud but gives grace to and relates better with people who are humble)
“An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not addicted wine or pugnacious, but gentle, uncontentious, free from the love of money. He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity (but if a man does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of the church of God?); and not a new convert, lest he become conceited and fall into the condemnation incurred by the devil. And must have a good reputation with those outside the church, so that he may not fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.” (1 Tim. 3:2-7, presents the character traits Christian leaders/elders are to have, shows what Christian maturity looks like, if you do not manifest these traits you are not a mature Christian no matter how smart you may be; examine the posts and see if they manifest these character traits or not)
“Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him. We know love by this, that He laid down His life for us; and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.” (1 Jn. 3:15-16)(the posts have repeatedly manifested hatred rather than love)
“Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love.” (1 Jn. 4:7-8) (a genuine believer will consistently be manifesting love towards other believers irrespective of whether or not they hold the same doctrinal beliefs)
“If someone says, “I love God”, and hates his brother, he is a liar, for the one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen. And this commandment we have from Him, that the one who loves God should love his brother also.” (1 Jn. 4:20-21)(we have a right to ask of a professing Christian: where is the love? If you hate other Christians, that suggests you are not one of His people)
“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.” (Jn. 13:34-35). (Jesus said it himself, love of one another, not intellect or contentious arguing, is what shows people belong to Him, intellect without love is no different than the nonbelievers, just as anything without love is worthless, cf. 1 Cor. 13:1-3)
“Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly, it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things” (1 Cor. 13:4-7, if a person loves other believers and unbelievers, we ought to see what is described here in their posts on the internet as well)
Now having seen some of the sinful things which Steve Hays has said towards me. And comparing his statements with the biblical admonitions of how Christians are to speak and treat one another. Hays needs to change his manner of interacting and speaking towards me. He needs to better practice what the Bible says about the manner in which Christians are to interact with one another. If he claims to be a Christian then he needs to live out what the Bible says, obey the exhortations and commands of scripture in regards to how to interact with other people. And if he has problems with the Bible verses mentioned here, or refuses to practice them, then he needs to have some interaction with the God who expects His people to be living these things out in every area of their lives.
Henry